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Top 5 worst fears 1. Not getting married 2. Getting married 3. Having kids 4. Not having kids 5. Being brutally murdered and only ever remembered as a victim rather than who I was
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Anonymous 22w

Literally all my worst fears, add on being murdered by someone close to me as well.

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Anonymous 22w

This is so real

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Anonymous 22w

not getting married is a genuine fear of y’all’s? yiikes

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Anonymous 22w

#2 please educate yourself on what your talking about and grow up ❤️

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Anonymous 22w

Mine is dying alone never having loved or been loved

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Anonymous 22w

Idk about you but for me it’s 1. My husband leaving/cheating because of having a postpartum body (that would be terrifying)

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Anonymous 22w

originally i assumed #2 was a man with ignorance. now i know #2 is a woman with incredible incognizance

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Anonymous 22w

What about Trump?

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Anonymous 22w

2 contradictions 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

More so a fear of ending up alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Well I didn’t grow up in a two parent household and was always jealous of my friends who did so yes I would like to experience marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

Heavy on the being jealous of friends who’s parents stayed together

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Anonymous 22w

and that’s why you should consider other people’s views because some of us weren’t blessed with the lifestyle you were blessed with

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

HEAVY ON THIS!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

but if married women and children of 2 parent homes are consistently telling you submitting to men is not the ultimate dream you should listen — but anyways. hope you find it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

You don’t have to “submit to a man” to have a healthy marriage. Most healthy marriages focus on the well being of both parties which is why they actually last.

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Anonymous 22w

And the fact that you see all marriages this way is the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

it’s not about “all marriages” it’s about how the average man views women— do what you wanna do

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Anonymous 22w

It’s okay to not want to get married, but you have to realize that it’s a common goal for other people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

and 1+1=2. the desire to be married and the desire to have children has fallen dramatically due to misogyny. the research is free.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Listen it’s okay if you don’t want marriage but stop trying to force your views onto people who do want marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Please get your brain washed brain out of here baby, people can do what they please who gives a ratass about research or “stereotypes” it’s 2026 it’s called free will why don’t you do some research on that 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

I think you need to review the definition of the word force, bird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Baby it’s not all men, if you find the right one for you that’s amazing if not there is someone’s else out there for you it’s not gonna be perfect but stereotypes have nothing to do with common sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

because my comment was ever stopping free will — yea okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

No it’s just making you look stupid tbh…🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

You can marry someone you actually love and you guys love each other equally? Not a foreign concept. Nor is it hard to grasp. Views on marriage differ.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

oh okay cause I was wondering.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

never said it wasn’t. that’s the voices in your head.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

Period

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Oh baby no🤣 you might wanna go to the dr for sizo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Ur literally trying to convince people that all marriage is bad 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

point out where I said that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Every comment yu put

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

oh okay so you can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

You trolling or slow?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

you talking about yourself?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22w

I think they’re just slow atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

oh okay so talking about yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Youre purposely missing the point and being ignorant. I think you realized that by now, you’re just chattin atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Nah im talking about you babes cuz you clearly can’t comprehend wtf we’re saying to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

just like your jaws are full. lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

it’s a valid fear!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Nahhh i don’t think so

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 22w

lol have you ever met a man? scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

I do. now what

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

It’s okay we understand your comprehension is low

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

keep projecting basura

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

If anything i think ur the one thats projecting sweetheart 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

basura

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

anywayssss free will marry who you want if you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 22w

agreed 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

That’s so real. My best friend in high school parents would go on dates while my parents couldn’t even stand each other. Things are better now and they’re cool but back then I gotta admit I was jealous a little.

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Anonymous 22w

if I find a non-misogynist in love with me I, too, would be willing to be married. the non-misogynist part is the hill here. sorry thats hard to comprehend, it’s almost as if the birth rate is falling for no reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 22w

I hope he keels over and dies

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 22w

I know lowkey it’s a lose-lose

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Finally you said something smart 👏

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

Oh baby nooo 🤦🏻‍♀️ I take back my compliment you need therapy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22w

why are you talking to me chopho

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