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Girl Talk 11w
tbh I don’t find being told to break up with ur bf as being disrespectful. it’s not like I’m forcing you to do it, but if it makes you think about doing it then…. Do it lmao I love my bf and I don’t want to break up with him so I’m not. It’s that simple
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Anonymous 11w

i find that if the person ur telling is THAT offended by being suggested they breakup, it's because they're insecure about some part of their connection and are being forced to think about it. a solid couple will just laugh at u for suggesting it and be like that's fine but im happy here

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Anonymous 11w

I think it’s disrespectful but only in the sense that I confided in someone and it sounds like they didn’t listen or care. Because if I go to a friend looking for a shoulder to lean on and advice and the only response is “break up with him” then I just believe you don’t care about me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

this is an insane way to think about this😭 being told to breakup isn't an attack on u, but rather someone piling together all uve complained about w ur relationship and genuinely not seeing how ur partner is positively adding to ur life enough to offset all that goes wrong

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