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My bf said he was having family issues and won't tell me anything, but he is upset about it. I want to help make him happier but I can't because I don't know what it's about. I pushed him too far when trying to get him to tell me about it, what do i do?
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Anonymous 2w

For now, I would give him some space. I guess he feels you violated one of his boundaries. I understand why you wanted to help and that’s a totally normal reaction, but he wants some privacy concerning his situation. If I were in this situation, I would say something like “Hey (bf), I’m sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable. I really care about you and want to help you as much as I can. I’m here for you if you ever want to talk to me. I love you.”

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Anonymous 2w

i’m like this as a girl. i genuinely think if i told my bf my family problems he wouldn’t love me. maybe he feels the same

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