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Girl Talk 18w
the “people pleaser” label has gotten so out of hand like i know not ALL of you bitches are people pleasers!! some of you are just overly polite and that is not the same thing!!
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Anonymous 18w

like maybe i’m being pedantic but apologizing for everything does not a people pleaser make. some of y’all call yourselves people pleasers but won’t even consider my feelings when it’s appropriate let ALONE being overly selfless

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Anonymous 18w

Self proclaimed people pleasers are the same girls who were bullies in high school and now are nurses who post motivational quotes on their insta stories

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18w

Idt people pleasing is true selflessness, it think it’s more like overly caring about whether people like you

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Anonymous replying to -> miniskirts 18w

It’s def this

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Anonymous replying to -> miniskirts 18w

maybe but i feel like it was originally meant to describe ppl who neglect their own needs to please others and just got co-opted

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Anonymous replying to -> miniskirts 18w

actually come to think of it that’s exactly my point. like thats what ppl use the phrase to mean NOW but that’s not what it actually meant originally. people pleasing means you have a hard time saying no and setting boundaries and acknowledging your own needs, not just needing to be liked by everyone

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