Anonymous #2 19h

I want to eat his skin

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Anonymous OP 18h

😅

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Anonymous #3 18h

Hmm great question. Both maybe

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Anonymous #1 17h

what i did is make a flags list for him. green flags and red flags. i include both specific instances and then also just general things i notice. if it's a guy who couldnt care less ab you, his red flags will greatly outweigh the green and you can read them to ground yourself when you start getting delusional.

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Anonymous #2 17h

He is literally the most beautiful human I’ve ever seen in my life it makes me SICKKKKKKK

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Anonymous #1 17h

Very logical. I probably won’t do it but it’s a great idea

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Anonymous #4 16h

But what if he’s obsessed with me too and he just doesn’t know it yet.

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Anonymous OP 16h

If he doesn’t know it then he’s a fucking idiot and you deserve someone with more than two brain cells to rub together

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Anonymous #4 15h

Ok but he’s so pretty

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Anonymous OP 15h

Girl stand up 😭

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Anonymous OP 15h

Anyone can be pretty if they’re rich enough. Plastic surgery is accessible now.

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Anonymous #1 14h

I dated a guy I was equally obsessed with and this is kinda how I got over him EXCEPT his literal ONLY red flag I could come up with was that he didn’t want me back. One day it just clicked, something in me completely changed. It’s just like #4 said, you deserve someone that’s equally obsessed with you or even moreso. Don’t ever EVER settle for less than that!!! Helped me get over it so fast after that (after like several months wallowing)

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Anonymous #5 14h

Me fr: 🧎‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 14h

No you don’t understand he is out of this world insanely beautiful

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Anonymous OP 14h

You just think that because you don’t know him that well. You’re ovulating, girl. Go get a vibe and get over him 😭

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Anonymous #4 14h

I’ve known him for 10 years 👹👹👹

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Anonymous OP 14h

Known him like…known OF him? Or have you been interacting with this man for 10 years on the regular?

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Anonymous OP 14h

Okay but this is still giving me secondhand embarrassment ngl queen

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Anonymous #4 14h

We used to talk a lot but not so much lately

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Anonymous #6 14h

That’s so valid I would probably be embarrassed if my brain wasn’t so preoccupied with delusion

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Anonymous OP 14h

Girl….and you’re completely sure that he’s not obsessed with you??? 10 years and NOTHING??? My girlfriend took three days of talking to make it clear she thought I was attractive. He sounds like such a bum

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Anonymous #4 14h

Ok welll. We dated briefly in high school and he WAS very obsessed with me so much so that it freaked me out a little and I dumped him 😵‍💫 and we had a weird situationship thing going on through some of college but we haven’t spoken much at all recently

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Anonymous OP 13h

Soooo YOU dumped HIM for being a good boyfriend? Girl you sound so inconsistent 😭 communicate with him about this but don’t be surprised if he’s moved on

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Anonymous #4 13h

We were like 15 😭😭 he has definitely moved on and I’ve tried but I cannottttt I know this is insane girl trust

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Anonymous OP 13h

You’re the protagonist in a shitty romance novel trust me you’re gonna get an equally hot man that promises a really cushy city life and your ex will finally lock in and confess his love again

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Anonymous #4 13h

Clock it

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Anonymous #7 12h

YA THINK??!!

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Anonymous #8 8h

lollll sorry my bsf was recently going through something similar and oh lord i HATED that guy. idk exactly how she got over him, but i DO know that they’re about 3 hours away now so that helps lol

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