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any self respecting woman won’t accept a man calling her a bitch. dating or not. friends or not.
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Anonymous 1d

I find it so stupid when they say he only calls me that when he’s joking girl he shouldn’t be calling you that at all

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t know. If it’s in a derogatory context definitely. Like “you’re such a bitch.” But I call people bitch all the time but it’s got an inflection on the I and it sounds more like an e. Like beeech. And my boyfriend will mimic me sometimes or use it in an appropriate context. I don’t think that’s wrong.

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Anonymous 1d

every time a man even calls me “ his bitch” i will leave immediately bc who do u think u are😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Or when they say “my bitch” as if it’s a endearing term ITS NOT

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It definitely matters the way it was delivered

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

no self respect

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

For a man to call someone “my bitch” is worse than any other use of bitch idc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ok.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

If it was girls or a gay couple then I see it as a reclaiming thing and is fine in that type of inflection. I get what ur saying like the "bitch please" tone but I don't EVER want a man to feel comfortable calling me a derogatory term even if he doesn't mean it maliciously he shouldn't feel comfortable using that word to me even in that way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’s that serious to you, it’s not that serious to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

Listen to each their own. I'm glad ur not offended by it but I am curious why a man calling you a derogatory term that has been used for centuries to degrade and belittle women is okay with you. I do mean that genuinely

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Because I have bigger things to worry about and I know my worth. And if it’s not being used in a derogatory way I don’t see an issue. All of my male friends respect the hell out of me so if bitch is ever used it’s never in a rude way. I genuinely don’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

And if it’s used in a rude way I do stand up for myself it’s just not that serious at the end of the day

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

Idk man we can agree to disagree but I think it IS most definitely that serious at the end of the day. It's a slippery slope. First you are comfortable calling women bitches then you're comfortable making sexist jokes and so on and so forth until it's completely gotten a at from you and I say this especially for men that have never experienced this type of systemic oppression. They simply don't get why it's that serious either thus the slippery slope because "it's not a big deal" or "it's

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

just a joke". And I'm glad you know your worth but I don't think that can take the place of caring about the respect you are shown from the people you surround yourself with. Even if they don't mean it disrespectfully, the word inherently is disrespectful. Again tho I get what ur saying and understand having to pick ur battles but i personally do think it's that deep. And as a woman allowing that is enabling that slippery slope for them. That's just my point of view tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

I get what you’re saying. Still isn’t that serious for me. If it ever was, my friends would take full accountability. And it’s really not a pick your battles situation for me cause I don’t take offense. If I’m actually being a bitch and I get called a bitch I don’t find any harm in that lmao. To each their own.

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