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if you were married with a kid in your 30s, would you wanna know that you’re high school boyfriend leaked all the nudes you sent him during then?
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Anonymous 1d

i feel like the ethical thing is obviously to tell her but on the other hand if this was me idk if i would want to know. basically would blow up my life for something that happened a decade ago but obviously i would want to know idk such a hard thing

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Anonymous 1d

she deserves to know so she can press charges if she’s a minor in those photos

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Anonymous 1d

yes and then id want to kill him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ok bc I was told that I shouldn’t tell her because it would interfere with her life and it’s been over a decade

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I was thinking the same thing too, and he still follows her on Facebook

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

wait are they married to the person who did it or not i just re read it and it seems like they aren’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

oh no she is married to a different guy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

OHHHHHHH yeah then maybe tell her i thought she was married to him and like it would blow up their marriage and everything but also at this point idk does she even need to know idk it’s so hard bc these people probably don’t have them anymore and it’s almost just giving her something to be upset about that doesn’t really matter anymore and honestly what would she really do about it beside now have something to feel upset at that happens 15 years ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeah, you’re right. I don’t wanna cause any trouble, but I do know they were off and on even after they broke up I don’t know how long and I just feel like it’s unfair I wish she would block him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i know it’s hard but sometime we just have to remember these things are out of our control i understand you feel like you want to do the right thing but sometimes it’s better to leave things as they are 😊

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