
for so long i was constantly told that wanting nice thoughtful gifts was materialistic, but all i want is the same level of care I would show to myself. not forcing a man to date me, so you don’t need to shrink yourself in hopes some man will accept you because you’re cheaper to him. it’s okay to not be for everyone! you are lovable! you don’t need to be as passive as possible to attract any and every man because you’re scared of being alone. my point: THE RIGHT MAN WILL SEE YOUR WORTH!