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my bf is a severe overthinker and idk what to do atp. especially when i leave for college and we’re long distance
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Anonymous 11w

Talk to him about it and see if there’s something that you can do to help him. However do not, I repeat do not give up your social life nor bend over backwards for him!! If he can’t find some way to let you help him (in a healthy way like check ins or plans every now n again with him) or if he keeps overthinking and makes a huge deal out of nothing, then there isn’t much you can do and you gotta be careful and put yourself first! Education comes first!!

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Anonymous 11w

that's truly not ur problem to fix. if he won't see anyone for it and it's taking over ur relationship then id question if staying was worth it, because he's not gonna change

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Anonymous 11w

Break up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

awomen couldn’t have said it better

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

ty queen

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