Girl Talk on Sidechat | he's cheating on me. i know it's bad but i went through his phone. he's messaging so many other girls. two fucking years for nothing. my first fucking everything. he isolated me from fucking EVERYONE. i'm sick to my fucking stomach i can't do this.

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he's cheating on me. i know it's bad but i went through his phone. he's messaging so many other girls. two fucking years for nothing. my first fucking everything. he isolated me from fucking EVERYONE. i'm sick to my fucking stomach i can't do this.

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Anonymous 3w

he was such an abusive piece of shit to me and i fuckinf stayed because it was just his "ocd and ptsd" yeah fuckinf right. idk what to do.

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Anonymous 3w

the worst part is that he's not even being messaged back like how are you going to try to cheat and not get a fucking message back you fucking imbecile

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Anonymous 3w

i can't help but feel like this is my fault. i'm alone. i live with him. what do i even do.

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Anonymous 3w

get him out of your life without saying a word. dont try to argue with him. dont try to explain yourself. block him on everything. give him absolutely nothing. disappear from his life. the healing process will be really really hard but in a few years you’ll look back and be so proud of yourself and grateful that you did

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Anonymous 3w

Hey, I’m so sorry that all of that happened, you should call the domestic violence hotline. They can get you temporary housing and help you come up with a plan for leaving and even get you in touch with good lawyers if you want. They won’t call the police or anything and they take calls of any kind of abuse or even assault

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Anonymous 3w

Pick better guys… it’s your fault

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OP 3w

first of all, this wasn’t your fault. this would have happened to any girl he was with. cheaters will cheat on anyone, even their soulmates. if you feel safe, you need to kick him out and change the locks. go to a friends house, call your parents, do anything. the best first step is to tell someone that you trust, someone who will help you cry and pack and move on. you are so much more than this man and you’ll be so much happier without him

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#1 3w

thank you, you're so sweet... i'm homeless and i live with him because i have no friends or family. i'm completely isolated. i'm so alone. he's the only person in my life. thank you for commenting though, even a little bit of human interaction makes me feel normal. i really appreciate your advice.

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mother_russia 3w

Emotional abuse is legally still abuse btw, please don’t hesitate to call them because he might not have gotten physically abusive with you (you haven’t said he did or didn’t so this is just incase he hasn’t)

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Anonymous

#4 3w

No one loves you and that’s your fault dude.

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#4 3w

so it's my fault for being abused? not knowing who he truly was before he showed me? dude fuck you. you genuinely don't know what it's like until you experience it.

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#3 3w

i'm genuinely debating on it. but he's already made up so many rumors and lies about me if i leave without saying a thing he's going to ruin my reputation.

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#3 3w

thank you for commenting i really do appreciate it.

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mother_russia 3w

thank you. i'm going to do just that. he's put his hands on me multiple times and has spat on me. it's both emotional and physical. i just hate how i ended up like this. i thought i was stronger than this. thank you for your reply, you've helped more than you'll ever know.

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OP 3w

Having this happen to you has nothing to do with your strength, you are strong! You got this!

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