Anonymous #1 3w

He definitely isn’t doing it on purpose but like for example I’m on my period, i feel gross and tired and he wants head, but i said no. So he got out of bed and Is just sitting in my chair. Like not mad but clearly disappointed

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Anonymous OP 3w

nah fuck that behavior. you’re on your period & probably cramping(?) no shit you don’t wanna do anything sexual. if he’s acting like that i would call him out on it tomorrow or later. he can be “disappointed” but he doesn’t have to go pout in the corner. definitely bring it up and be like “I’m sorry that i don’t wanna do sexual stuff less than you do, but when i reject you & you do xyz (move away from me and act disappointed/upset) i feel xyz”

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Anonymous #1 3w

Everyone needs a friend like you in their life

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Anonymous OP 3w

Lmaooooo this reminds me of the chuds I dated in college. Girl get some self respect please.

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Anonymous #3 3w

Hes not a bad boyfriend hes actually really great, this is the only issue we have. Hes not automatically a chud, i just am trying to get real advice about a problem were having

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Anonymous OP 3w

My ex used to say that he’ll just never initiate ever again since I was never into it (I literally gave in nearly every time he asked) because he was a douchebag. I didn’t stand up for myself when I should’ve, please do what #1 is saying because I wish I did. Current bf and I have about the same sex drive and we rarely touch each other and we’re thriving lol

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Anonymous #4 3w

Thank you so much!!!

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Anonymous OP 3w

Your bf is literally throwing a fit when you won’t give him head is fucking INSANE to justify… no matter how you twist it, that proves that he just sees you as something to get off to. I’m sorry but there’s no salvaging this, he’s already proven that he doesn’t see you as a human being. Don’t try to rationalize it to save your feelings, LEAVE. Yesterday.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I really can’t imagine seeing a man do this and not immediately realizing he’s a piece of shit.

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Anonymous #3 3w

Then maybe be happy youre not in this situation? In a relationship its not always roses and daisies sometimes theres issues and people react in ways you dont like. You talk about it, and sort it out. This person clearly wants help with a relationship not someone to tell them they sound stupid. Relationships like this arent always easy to just remove yourself from so maybe next time offer condolences or advice instead of being cocky

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