I’m so freaking embarrassed
She couldn’t even do it because of the way I naturally react to it💀. Started asking if I’d been SA’d and that’s the reason I was so sensitive to it. No it just hurts 😭idk why and I wish someone would tell me why
i have the same issues and mine said i likely have vaginismus or some sort of hymen issue. i’m sorry yours made it seem like you were weird for not enjoying an uncomfortable, invasive, and often painful procedure
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Anonymous#15d
have you found any way to make these things bearable with your issues?
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AnonymousOP5d
not personally besides asking for a smaller speculum, i just go a little less frequently than i should — but i know some people get an anti anxiety pill prescribed to help make it more tolerable