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How to tell someone to stop inviting themselves over wo hurting their feelings
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Anonymous 9w

She gatekeeps the time of plans and always says we can head over together. Comes early, etc. wouldn’t necessarily be a huge problem but through the grapevine I know she has a crush on me but SHE KNOWS I don’t feel the same. It’s pissing me off like I don’t want to cut her off but it’s so uncool

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Just cut her off she’ll be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Ty. Needed that. I think I just have to tell her that I have to go/I’m busy/etc and if she can’t deal then I’ll cut her off

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