Anonymous #1 4d

But at the same time if someone did get their drink spiked I don’t think it’s ok to say u should have watched ur drink or kept it covered

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Anonymous #1 4d

Okay so something happened to your comment and I couldn’t respond to it. I quoted this post if you want to see it in the new tab but otherwise I can just tell you what I said

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Anonymous OP 4d

Nvm I’m just gonna show you

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Anonymous OP 4d

I get why you’re saying but at the same time people use that as an excuse to victim blame. Like I mentioned in the comment in the picture, there’s a reason why under so many videos of a victim coming out about stuff there’s a bunch of women saying in the comments that they should’ve known better because women are taught to know better or under a video where something could’ve happened to someone there’s a bunch of people saying that it would’ve been there fault or implying that the person who

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Anonymous OP 4d

would’ve been the victim somehow is the one at fault for not doing enough to guarantee their safety. Or that if you’re going out alone (the context of the post I mentioned because the woman was on a solo trip) that you should expect to be in a bad situation because why would you as a woman go out by yourself? Also I’m so sorry for all the comments 😭

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Anonymous OP 4d

Ya no I understand that thats y I made the distinction that when someone is the victim like they actually had the spiked drink I don’t think it’s appropriate to then say u should have done this or that

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Anonymous #1 4d

My comment was more about like sometimes my friends parents tell them preventative measures that I agree with but they take it as victim blaming and saying men shouldn’t act this way. But I personally feel that ya they shouldn’t but they do so there is no harm taking safety measures

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Anonymous #1 4d

And like obviously everyone should have the right to chose what they do so u don’t have to listen but u also don’t have to get so angry or take it personally. Like I feel it’s coming from a place of love

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