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i’ve been debating breaking up w him… there’s bad things yeah but the good things are soooo good and idk what to do
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Anonymous 1d

Break up with him. Things will probably not get any better but could get a whole lot worse.

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Anonymous 1d

i think you can find those good things in someone who doesn’t have the bad. usually things tend to get worse as people get more comfortable. it he were your soulmate i don’t think you’d feel this way. my opinion with love

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Anonymous 1d

Give us a quick pro con list

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I don’t think this is the best advice or way to think about anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

okay see my whole thing is i have a very very very toxic ex and that relationship got very very bad very quickly. me and my current bf have been together close to 7 months and it’s small things that keep adding up with no change, even though he says he will. there are times where i feel manipulated but then i also can’t tell so im not sure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i would not want to continue forming a life with someone who is full of empty promises. sounds completely logical to breakup, he's shown u time and time again that he doesn't care or respect u enough to make changes. don't give him another chance if hes failed so much already

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