
Like I said, i don’t hate mothers and if u wanna have kids thats fine but I don’t think we should be convincing women that it’s “feminine and soft” to have kids and be a SAHM right after college. Having absolutely no work experience will make it hard to find a job in the future if you get divorced or ur husband can’t work anymore even if u have a degree. Many women talk abt how they had to give up things they enjoyed doing bc they now live on one income with multiple kids, that’s not “soft life”