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why am i seeing women in their 20s giving up career goals to have kids and struggle budget on their husband’s income and call it a “soft life”. Like no hate to mothers in general but like trad wife propaganda is scary😭
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Anonymous 4w

it’s genuinely insane how these men can trap women so easily and ruin their lives sorta off topic but it’s a no brainer why these types of men want abortion and no fault divorce banned bc i find it extremely believe any sensible woman would voluntarily wish for that lifestyle

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Anonymous 4w

Seriously, that ain’t no soft life wake up 😭

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Anonymous 4w

hard to believe*

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Anonymous 4w

Some people have different priorities or aren’t fulfilled by a working career. That’s okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

would be a harder life for me than a damn 9-5

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

idk fully relying on a man financially isn’t beneficial for anybody

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Like I said, i don’t hate mothers and if u wanna have kids thats fine but I don’t think we should be convincing women that it’s “feminine and soft” to have kids and be a SAHM right after college. Having absolutely no work experience will make it hard to find a job in the future if you get divorced or ur husband can’t work anymore even if u have a degree. Many women talk abt how they had to give up things they enjoyed doing bc they now live on one income with multiple kids, that’s not “soft life”

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