
i couldn’t be persuaded to care tbh. obviously nothing illegal and i don’t want him messaging a specific creator or something like that, but it’s not something that bothers me. i like porn sometimes, and erotica lol. i’m not always going to be in the mood when they are, and sometimes our imaginations need some assistance, and it can give ppl ideas for things they want to try. i also don’t have the energy to try to control or care abt what my partner does online.
that’s a very common feeling, it’s valid if you feel that way. if it’s something you don’t want to compromise on you can communicate that with your bf. i will say many men who watch porn in relationships don’t think of it in that way tho. it’s not like you as a girlfriend are lacking something. many ppl just enjoy watching porn and having variety in sexual stimulation
i also am bisexual so the typical straight experiences of jealousy just don’t apply to me. i’m a very confident person. i might feel strange like if i knew that my partner was watching porn of women who look nothing like me, but then i also have to decide that a) they’re with me for a reason and b) i have to trust my partner in general.