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how do yall feel about your boyfriend watching porn?
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Anonymous 9w

Kill kill kill stab stab stab

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Anonymous 9w

I honestly don’t mind it as long as it’s regular porn and not someone’s only fans. If he’s paying for it or if it’s someone specific then yeah it’s a problem

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Anonymous 9w

has never bothered me before but my last boyfriend didn’t watch porn at all and i realized i actually really appreciated that he didn’t. not sure how ill feel in my next relationship but i can’t see myself wanting to restrict him if thats what he wants to do

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Anonymous 9w

i don’t really care. i am part of the kink scene though so im biased 🤷 as long as its not illegal or disrupting our relationship then i have no reason to care what he gets off to in his own time

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Anonymous 9w

ive never understood what the big deal is and i still dont ngl ✋🫪 (no, i dont want you to explain it to me 🤏🫪 Yes, ppl have explained it before 🤏🫪 but I still dont see the issue cause I personally dont care and i cant physically put myself in the shoes of someone who does 🤏🤏🫪)

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Anonymous 9w

i beat him until he stopped doing it

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Anonymous 9w

HELL NAH

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Anonymous 9w

i couldn’t be persuaded to care tbh. obviously nothing illegal and i don’t want him messaging a specific creator or something like that, but it’s not something that bothers me. i like porn sometimes, and erotica lol. i’m not always going to be in the mood when they are, and sometimes our imaginations need some assistance, and it can give ppl ideas for things they want to try. i also don’t have the energy to try to control or care abt what my partner does online.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

it just makes me feel like weird? like i’m your girlfriend like am i not enough? like that feeling

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 9w

so you lack cognitive empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

🫥 are u good?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

that’s a very common feeling, it’s valid if you feel that way. if it’s something you don’t want to compromise on you can communicate that with your bf. i will say many men who watch porn in relationships don’t think of it in that way tho. it’s not like you as a girlfriend are lacking something. many ppl just enjoy watching porn and having variety in sexual stimulation

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 9w

yeah i just find you annoying tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

i did talk to him about it and he said it’s just the stimulation or something like that but he said he still finds me attractive and such

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

then why are u talking to me? lmao 🫪

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

yeah that sounds pretty typical. it’s up to you what you decide to do. if it really bothers you and you need to rethink the relationship then you wouldn’t be the first woman to do so.

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 9w

because i wanted to tell you that based off your response you lack what’s called cognitive empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

that's exactly what i think fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

crazy you think id give a fuck lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

i also am bisexual so the typical straight experiences of jealousy just don’t apply to me. i’m a very confident person. i might feel strange like if i knew that my partner was watching porn of women who look nothing like me, but then i also have to decide that a) they’re with me for a reason and b) i have to trust my partner in general.

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