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I think the fetishization of straight presenting gay men needs to be studied, it’s crazy
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Anonymous 4w

no genuinely, and like the forcing of that onto characters or real people who actually aren’t is crazy if that makes sense. like why can’t we just let guys be friends OR date and be normal about it

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Anonymous 4w

jonathan bailey

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Anonymous 4w

Like I like Heated Rivalry don’t get me wrong but some of you straight ladies are being a bit weird about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It actually bothers me because i don’t necessarily have a problem with shipping characters, but some people just take it way too far and it gets weird. Like tell me why I saw a girl crying at the finale of stranger things because el died and mike and Will didn’t get together she said “she died, so why don’t they just fuck?” Children btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

As someone who likes Will x Mike that's messed up. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree except with the "forcing" onto characters who "aren't" part, they aren't real people and they don't actually have sexualities. I don't think people shouldn't be allowed to ship just because the characters are the same sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

a yikyak about fetishizing straight looking gay men is NOT how i expected the finale to be spoiled for me tysm for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Omg I’m so sorry, I literally did not mean for the finale to be spoiled. And also I’m lowkey impressed it didn’t get spoiled sooner

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Omg yess!!! It’s also so weird for women to be like “ugh why does he have to be gay” and other invalidating things, like let the man live

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Wait I actually feel so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

lolol it’s okay, i’ve been avidly avoiding social media bc everyone’s posting about it. i just need to watch it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I highly recommend watching it, I enjoyed it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I agree, im not talking about shipping so much as people who take ships too far, obsess over them and (most importantly) insist they’re actually canon and hate on canon straight relationships bc they can’t fathom close male friendships. I’ve seen bakugo/deku shippers from MHA do this as well as kiryu/majima shippers from the yakuza franchise. most people are completely normal about ships but I’ve seen a concerning about of people that can’t be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

to clarify bc either people don’t get it or they feel called out, this is about people who refuse to acknowledge that straight men can be friends and obsessively fetishize any close male friendships to the point where they go out of their way to bully people who just support different (usually canon) ships bc. ship whoever you want, just don’t flip shit when people don’t all think your ship is perfect and what the writers actually intended (ESPECIALLY when it isn’t canon).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

No I 100% know what you’re saying babe I don’t know why people were downvoting that

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