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Idk what to: dad didn’t tell me he was bringing misogynistic brother up to see me at college and I said don’t come if you’re not going to make sure that I feel comfortable. He came here anyways and said hope you’ll join us, no apology, nothing
#poll
Suck it up to get a free meal
Don’t text or call at all
Call and just ask for $$$
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Anonymous 2w

reparations

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Anonymous 2w

I’m honestly shocked I’m the only one to vote don’t text don’t call. But after learning to deal with a dad who constantly violated my boundaries the best solution has been to not allow him to treat me that way. I’ve literally driven 3 hours home, had my dad act like an asshole, then turned around 20 minutes after I got home to drive back to my apartment. He’s much more pleasant and respectful now that he’s learned I don’t fuck around with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Period I agree. AND…. I also want money but not his money so guess I’ll call up momma

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Good choice! And good luck if you are trying to set boundaries long term, it’s fucking exhausting but it’s well worth it when it finally pays off. I had such a nice time with zero conflict when I went home to my parents a couple weekends ago. I think it was the first time I ever genuinely enjoyed a visit from start to finish with him!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Lmfaooo thank you queen and I’m happy to hear you did so consistently. You sounds like a strong, secure yung ho and I hope u run free

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