saw my grandfather for the first time in a while. he spent the whole time telling me I absolutely must have babies in my 20s and under no circumstances can I be 30 and barren...
(despite knowing I'm going to grad school and not even asking if I want kids)
and to make it even worse the only reason we were there was to celebrate my brothers second birthday, who my dad had in his fucking 50s!!! like he's not lacking in young grandkids rn