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Can we talk about how guys never make the first move anymore? Like grow a pair already😒
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Anonymous 7w

no literally, even just friendships too

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Anonymous 7w

they only do it when they wanna fuck

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Anonymous 7w

Girls complaining about this will never not be funny. Men making the first move is part of patriarchy where women take a back seat and men make all the decisions. Your just as capable of making the first move girl

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Anonymous 7w

literally went and asked two different guys for their insta n airballed🌝 whts the method🌞

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Anonymous 7w

The fear of rejection and being talked or posted bout is why , legit had this convo as a class topic and the men were either lying or truthful but it seems just of fear of rejection or embarrassment

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Anonymous 7w

Sorry but you’re not a real feminist if you need guys to do that

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Anonymous 7w

PERIOD. Like bro we LOVE when guys make the first move half the time we’ll say yes even if u think ur dead ass ugly.

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Anonymous 7w

Because it’s so hard for guys to make the first move and not be either upright rejected or let down slowly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

This exacltyyyyyy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

like i'm tryna make new friends at college and this guy that i wanna be friends with just cant take the hint

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

exactly, then when they find out you dont want to, they dip

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

It’s the bare minimum tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

god forbid you get rejected or let down slowly 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Like the worst we can say is no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I’ve read 15 post on here about girls ghosting guys no is not the worst

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I’m sure there’s a reason they got ghosted, maybe check yourselves before saying something stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

And this is why dudes don’t approach u how are they gonna know what u think is stupid or even if u think they are attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Well saying something to make her uncomfortable is a start…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

All this chat talks about is how guys are scum of the earth it’s hard to feel like it’s a good idea to approach someone if u feel like the whole gender already don’t fuck with u

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Well maybe yall gotta be better and not so weird🤷‍♀️ if you gotta say you’re a “nice guy” you probably aren’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Regardless it’s 2026 and yall are grown if u want a man just go talk to one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

So no one said that but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I’m talking about the guys u say u want to approach you who are considering how comfortable u are and don’t want to make u feel like ur getting hit on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

You’re getting really aggressive rn and it’s rlly showing your low levels of emotional regulation. Maybe you were ghosted for a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Having actual girl friends is fun you get to know some drama and good drinking spots 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

maybe no one’s approaching u for a reason 😭🙏

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