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So um I kinda just lost my virginity is someone willing to talk to me? It was very dumb
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Anonymous 10w

I am here for the goss 👂🏻No judgement here

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Anonymous 10w

Is it a good time to talk about birth control and STI testing for next time?😬

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

So this was my first time and I met him. The original plan was just for him to touch me and I jerk him off. I ended I’m sucking him off and we ended up doing it. We were just in his car and it was raining. Tbh 😭I didn’t even feel him cum and I barely knew he was in me. I do have some vibrators so I’ve used them. 😔I didn’t even cum but I liked him touching me

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

😭he got me plan B also

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Girl did you not use a condom. 😨

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

😭we weren’t even supposed to have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

Now he is texting me asking me how it felt 😭idk I didn’t feel it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No judgement but lemme give u advice as a girl who was sexually active this year— pls my dear make sure you use that plan B and pee after sex immediately, now and in the future! You want to prevent UTI’s so using the bathroom and a wet wipe after sex is the best option. I also recommend getting tested regularly especially after you had unprotected sex. I hope you trust him and you’ve both had extensive talks on his sexual history and yours. Honestly my first time with heterosexual p in v—

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

I want to get tested as soon as possible

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

— sex was not magical either, but as people with vaginas it kind of won’t be unless your pleasure is prioritized. Make sure you both have your moments to feel loved and cherished, or even just pleasured. I think toys are excellent and if you have them I’d use them! Not everyone finishes from penetrating and that’s completely okay. As long as you prioritize your pleasure and he does as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I would reccomend it asap! As well as reading my other comment too I’m a slow typer lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Be honest! You can’t have better sex if you don’t straight up tell him hey I didn’t feel it. This is when you both experiment and find what works for you

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Anonymous replying to -> sweetdeeznutz 10w

😭btw thank u i dont really have anyone i can talk to this about. I dont feel comfortable telling my friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

You can also dm me if you want. Im glad I can help!! I got out of an abusive situation recently and I think knowing the sexual red flags when you go from no sex to a intimate relationship is good

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Anonymous replying to -> birthcontrolfairy 10w

Love the username lol

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