i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again, relationships are only beneficial if you’re in love. and i promise that once you’re in love interacting with that person will feel like the opposite of a chore.

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My husband is bi polar and I’m autistic so when he’s manic, he can talk and exist around me for hours and I don’t have to fully listen, I do listen enough to understand what’s happening but if he’s rabbit holing and just needs someone to hear him, I can be a fence post with ears vs when he’s depressed, he just wants to quietly exist near me and I can be the one who moves around and does stuff and I doubt this dynamic would work if we haven’t known each other since we were nine

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You also don’t have to lol- you can figure out whether the best relationship for you is one where u sleep in diff rooms or don’t text super often but have awesome dates- like u get to decide ^^ also u would probably be into them so u want to hang out at least sometimes

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DEADASS. im just not ready for that

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