Anonymous hooters 17h

id rec what #2 said also but i think you need to get more confortable just having a conversation about it first 🫪👍 watching or reading about sexual things is like 3 steps ahead of where u are ☝️😌 you need to learn what ur comfortable talking about now and how to bring those topics up without feeling weird about it first

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Anonymous hooters 17h

U right

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maybe embarased is a better word

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Anonymous #2 16h

I fear I'd he so so embarassed...and I'm jealous

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Anonymous hooters 16h

the thing is I don't exactly know what I want...and I feel like it's cheating to watch porn or look stuff up

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Anonymous OP 16h

Jealous of what? Also what do you want if you have that to go off of that rlly helps

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Anonymous OP 16h

i mean to expand ur horizons you have to do research of some kind 🤷‍♀️ there's only so much input i or anyone online can give you, you're the one that knows what you are or arent confortable with fr, like what other poses do you know about that you want to try? is it more like you have specific poses in mind u want to try or are u looking for new ideas on poses to try

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Anonymous OP 15h

you dont need to watch porn for it either, you could read smut also and honestly i'd say read smut instead cause a lot of porn can be a little too much

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Anonymous hooters 15h

Okay! How would you suggest I bring it up tho

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Anonymous hooters 15h

I guess I have just gotten bored of it being so repetitive, I know that sounds terrible but it’s genuinely just how I feel

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Anonymous #2 15h

I just want to try new positions I think I’d id be open to anything he wants, but the thing is I think he is very content. Also like I don’t want him to see another girl naked…

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Anonymous OP 15h

there's nothing wrong with that 🤷‍♀️ ur allowed to be bored sometimes, you just gotta explore and ask urself what type of stuff you'd be interested to try but youwill need to research about kinks and shit for that

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Anonymous hooters 15h

Okay!! Thank you so much I will research and THEN have a talk with him

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Anonymous OP 14h

But what do you want? This sounds like something you want to try but you gotta be able to advocate

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Anonymous #2 14h

I really don’t know. This might be tmi but I’ve always wanted to try doggy. It’s just the fact that I’m embarrassed because I know he is more then happy with our current arrangements

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Anonymous OP 14h

Not tmi at all! Doggy is lots of fun. Dont be embarrassed for wanting pleasure out of sex thats all its about

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Anonymous OP 14h

yeah but ur not happy and that matters too! if anything you could just start with bringing up doggy to test the waters if ur really worried 🤷‍♀️ u could just be like "can we try doggy today?" or some shit before yall do it and honestly i think this is a good way for u to also test him on his reaction ☝️😌 if he's super dismissive about it or if he makes u feel dirty for asking in anyway that's a major red flag, but if he's willing to hear you out, even if he ends up saying no i think you're in good

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Anonymous hooters 14h

nah actually scrap doing research or anything, start with asking him if yall can try doggy cause its also good for you in a gaining confidence in asking and having these types of convos type of way 😌

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Anonymous hooters 13h

Thank you so so much actually!!! I will update on how it goes just remind me if dm me lol

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