Girl Talk on Sidechat | Guys tldr: guy I met in oct basically didn’t talk to me the whole winter break but then starts texting me now that school is back. I think he is treating me like a casual thing but then he tells me stuff like I’m gonna take u out on dates and shit.

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Guys tldr: guy I met in oct basically didn’t talk to me the whole winter break but then starts texting me now that school is back. I think he is treating me like a casual thing but then he tells me stuff like I’m gonna take u out on dates and shit.

Anonymous 3w

What do I do bc I wanna be taken seriously and not just casual but Idk if he wants that and if I tell him that, it might scare him off. It’s so confusing bc we’ve been having sleepovers since beginning of October and he and I have not done the deed so idk what he’s getting at. It’s not like he wants to have sex and he’s just waiting for that but I’m so sad that he ignored me the whole break and now wants to start things up again

Anonymous 3w

if he wanted to he would

Anonymous 3w

You just have to be straightforward with your intentions and he doesn’t respect then he’s not the one.

Anonymous

OP 3w

honestly it’s better to be upfront about your desires, if you telling him you don’t want a casual thing scares him off then it’s better he’s scared off now instead of wasting your time for the next semester