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1 way to know if a man really cares and isn’t looking for sex: Any injury. Any injury will bring out the real them. You won’t hear back from them. They’ll only call to see if you healed enough to have sex.They don’t call because they care. Get an injury.
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Anonymous 10w

And no, I’m not talking about a man who has a disability himself. 🙄 This wouldn’t work ofc. I’m talking about a full able bodied man.

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Anonymous 10w

I hate how real this is. But I’m very fortunate I found a man who drops everything to take care of me when I’m sick/hurt

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Anonymous 10w

so there has to be a better way

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Anonymous 10w

This doesnt work if theyre disabled or chronically ill tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

There are other ways, but that’s one. I had knee surgery, and the guy that claimed we would work out. Got mad because I couldn’t have sex with him. He stopped talking to me, never called, visited, or texted to see if I was alright. He texted the other day and asked if I was healed. I said it’s going to take a while. He went on this rampage about how he got needs and we’re together, blah blah.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i hope u blocked him, u shouldn’t have to deal with someone who cares so little for u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

no literally. i can say i have a small headache and my man drops everything and asks what he can do to help. if he’s in the mood and im not feeling good, he doesn’t take care of me just so i feel good enough to have sex, he takes care of me bc he hates to see me hurting. im so very lucky.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

blah blah fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Most definitely did

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