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I asked this cute Asian guy out after months of flirting and he asked to just be friends. ☹️
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Do you think his race had significance to why he said no?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I literally was about to say this 😭 like this post feels so racist…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I don’t think it’s racist. I was thinking maybe they felt there was a cultural difference or something. I just felt like maybe it was something with meaning since they felt it was important to mention their race.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I’m Italian but I prefer Asian guys. But I feel like Asian guys like Asian girls the most.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Ohhh okay! Well if someone turns you down bc your race, you probably don’t want them anyways.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

My ex bf is from Vietnam and I’m white…that’s a crazy generalization and assumption 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I don’t think her statement is far fetched at all. Most people prefer their race when dating but i definitely feel it’s a little weird to completely turn down someone because of it, especially in the U.S. Sometimes people don’t like cultural differences when bonding with people and that’s on them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

We’re really good friends. It’s not his fault.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Is he cool with white women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

That’s so weird that people would “prefer their race” like I’m not even trying to be woke but that’s straight up racist 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Yeah..why??

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Yeah you gotta talk that up with them. Thats just how folks work. I guess ppl have their reasons and I can’t question everything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Cause I wish this guy was

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