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Tips on how to be content with being single? I want a boyfriend so bad but I’m not gonna settle for what I don’t want either 🫩
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Anonymous 1d

I just imagine the stress and constant worry of a man cheating on me behind my back. And I’ve had men deadass beg for me, stalk me, and even go as far as “Great Gatsbying” their social media pages for me and pop out with a girl as short as 2 weeks later after giving up I guess. I never want to be that girl ngl. Half of them don’t even like you they just don’t know how to be by themselves.

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Anonymous 1d

Just do what u want, the only person ur truly living for is urself. So why do u need a bf to make urself happy? Learn to make urself happy

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Anonymous 1d

I’m in the EXACT same boat rn. Man I’m tired alr of being single

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Anonymous 1d

Just settle fuck it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Honestly I needed this thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

No problem! Just take your time and surround yourself with good ppl who make you forget about relationships. Not saying you’re dealing with this by any means but I had male centered friends who weren’t really good to me and that made me crave being in a relationship. Once I got friends with the mindset I wanted, and I saw how men are firsthand, I’d rather stay single until I die atp. I’ve seen too much.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah men are so not worth the stress. Just look at life expectancy differences between single women and married women. Also getting into more hobbies helps you love yourself more

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