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I need help. My bf just told me he washes to completely change our lives and give up all technology and entertainment and cosmetics and toys and anything that is created by hurting someone else and like ok ya I get it 100% but that’s insane to just expect
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Anonymous 11w

Ur bf gen might be manic if this is a real request. Has he been sleeping and eating okay and does he talk at a regular pace? If he has, nearly everything in our daily life was made with some form of unethical labor/means of supply (Phones, clothing, appliances) this is impossible and u should either talk about it w him or leave him imo

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Anonymous 11w

Me to just change my whole life and drop everything and basically become a monk

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Anonymous 11w

*wants to not washes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I’ve been with him for 3 years I’m crying hysterically because this is just insane and i feel like I’ve wasted my time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Pay attention to his physical habits; Is he sleeping well, does he become agitated easily? Please refer him to an adult or someone around him who can monitor him bcs I don’t think Mania or Hypomania is off the table. But if u don’t think it’s a mental health thing, this is a rly disruptive way to announce his new way of life and u need to address that while also deciding how u individually and personally feel.

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