
I’m gonna be fr with you, there’s a very solid chance her parents know her behavior and do not care. Your options are file a police report/affidavit for the stolen items make a talley of exactly what is missing and add up the cost, if it’s over a certain amount it can be a felony or just cut your losses and let her leave and be out of your life.
The thing is it’s been a semester long of my family bleeding money to buy things for me for our apartment, that they didn’t expect to bc of her intentional mean petty acts. And it’s also the fact her and her friends trashed the place and harassed me in my own apartment all semester long. And the rent for our apartment is too high for this behavior and bs
Honestly rope the friends in at this point cause I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re involved too if they’ve trashed the house multiple times. If OP is lucky one of them will have enough common sense to realize this petty shit isn’t worth a criminal record and rat everyone else out.
Yeah it might be her bf or a friend with her doing it. I’m pretty sure it happened when she had company over some time in December (probably out of retaliation towards me after she received a final warning notice before eviction bc she threw another party). I keep thinking back to a few weeks ago how I was up at 2am even questioning if they were touching my dishes on their last night here when drunk bc it sounded like it for a sec. Losing my mind over this😭
Literally bc i don’t want to let this shit slide. She laughs about all her disrespectful and gross behavior hiding behind texts, and lies about cleaning up after herself. She literally just hates me bc I ask her to respect the common areas for all of us, and my other roommates are too scared to speak up. And after moving in first in August, finding she left the fridge open all summer, full of moldy food and dead flies, leaving me responsible to get it fixed?? Nothing is funny. At all.
My mom is refusing to be the one to call her mom and help me with this, telling me to let it go unless it continues( wtf fuck that) Should I call her mom’s work number I found online myself? Or email her mom’s work email? I’m so scared, but I just looked back at photos of our kitchen I’ve taken, and can literally see shit went missing within the last few days she lived here in December🤬