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Girl Talk 11w
HELP. Im thinking abt breaking up with my bf. i dont feel attraction anymore. I dont want him to think i used him for his body. I just dont see a future. He bought a ticket to see me last summer. Weve been tg 4 mths. It seems the honeymoon stage is over 😃
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Anonymous 11w

Just do it, don’t waste your or his time anymore

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Anonymous 11w

I realize this isn’t necessarily ur experience, but in my personal experience, spontaneously doubting my attraction to a partner that I was previously very attracted to seems to always be more abt me being a person who seeks out novelty then about how much I’m actually physically attracted to them or abt the health and viability of the relationship itself— so working through being uncomfortable with a relationship once the newness has worn off has been a rlly good thing for me personally

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

So if any of that rings true for u— then I’d recommend holding off and looking into that, but if u genuinely just feel like you’ve just grown apart and are no longer compatible— or if he did some bullshit to piss u off and make u feel this way 100% dump his ass bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Sorry I promise I’m rlly not anti dumping these dumbass men, I just wanted to share my experience in case it was helpful at all! Wishing u the best either way!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Its more of small things that he does that bothers me, he doesnt take charge, when i got black out drunk he didnt do anything.. it was all my best friend taking care of me and cleaning up after me. He doesnt make decisions - just leaves everything up to me to choose. ALSO for reference before we got tg he wasnt my type we just clicked. The more i learn about him the less my interest peaks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i’m not done reading your message but i got to the black out drunk part that is enough dump him dump him dump him that’s not okay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

yeah just dump him he’s not your type, your best friend seems like a better option if you’re bi tbh

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