
It sounds like this man fits the term really well, as a hidden requirement is to hate women. A surprising amount of gay men hate women just as much or are more misogynistic than straight men. That’s where a lot of demeaning gay language comes from. Usually they don’t realize when or how they’re being misogynistic because it’s considered a cultural norm. I’ve met a couple of gay men who have tried to touch me inappropriately because they think it’s fine since they’re one of the “girls”.