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Girl Talk 2w
ok I might get hate for this but at some point you have to recognize that improving your life/mindset/self esteem does take actual work and it won’t happen if you don’t make it
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Anonymous 2w

Years of therapy has helped me through this! Having undergone harm doesn’t excuse u from subjecting others to the same thing! Learn from what you’ve had to experience and adjust accordingly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I was replying to a commenter, but they deleted their comment. I’ll drop my take here. Ppl can struggle, but actively traumatizing and harming someone isn’t okay. We are all adults who have undergone some degree of socialization. At our grown ages, we should know not to get jealous of our friends having other friends, we should know not to monopolize ppl, we should know screaming at friends is inappropriate. Yes it’s not all linear, but if you don’t know these things still, there’s a problem

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