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I love my sister, but i wish she was there for me more. she never knocked on my door, never helped me with makeup, never helped me with any girl related issues. I had to learn how to be a girl all on my own, and now i feel like im never doing it right.
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Anonymous 1d

even now, do you think you can ask for her help?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i would feel awkward, almost unnatural. does that make sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

perfect sense. i literally had to have a similar conversation a few months ago and couldn’t spill it out without crying lol. it helped but was very uncomfy at first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

the thing is, i wouldn’t even know what to say to her. To her we’re as close as we could be, but to me it almost feels fabricated. Like we love each other, but i see sister relationships in films and tv shows and ache knowing that I didn’t have that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

honestly, you can think of all the things to say but when the convo starts it’ll possibly go off script. have the convo sitting down. don’t blame her but tell her you want to be closer and you want those sisters moments. use i statements. “i feel” “ i think” “i want”. it’ll be very uncomfortable because it’s new and feels vulnerable but it can really connect y’all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

thank you for the tips!! I’ll try them out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i truly hope you get that bond you want and that the convo goes well. best of luck and if you’re comfy i’d love to hear updates :))

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