ppl don’t like to think of weed as addictive, but it definitely can be. you can take this as a personal betrayal or a sign of distrust, or you can take it as an indication of an addict struggling to quit. does he actually want to quit? or did you ask him to change that part of his life? personally i’d try not to be mad at him if it’s an addictive thing, but make sure you’re really thinking about why he felt like he had to/wanted to hide it from you

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depends on how u feel about him hiding something for 5 months from u

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Well today, he broke down crying and said “we need to talk abt something and I need you to sit bc idk if you’ll want to be w me after this” he told me that he had relapsed and had been smoking weed behind my back for the past 5 ish months. I’m so heartbroken. And betrayed. Do I give him another chance? Get him help? Leave him? He’s the love of my life and we’ve never had any problems. I don’t know what to do.

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