Anonymous #1 12w

8 months would be a lifetime to my friend she’s newly single and already looking for anyone and everyone to come fill the void 😵‍💫

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Anonymous #3 12w

at some point it’s self harm but I’m doing my best the only reason she’s not kicked to the curb is bc I love her mom, she knows I’m her only friend with sense and we’ve been friends since we were 7

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Anonymous #4 12w

she played herself 😭 you’d think isolating from friends would be a red flag but I guess not. she did that to me once but we were 15 at the time and that’s the onlyyyy reason she got away with it. I’m literally so tired grandpa

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Anonymous #2 12w

ik queer people like this too & it’s still insufferable even without the male-centering ;-; those people treat relationships like an obligation they must take as if they’re the ONLY way to find self-worth or happiness..

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Anonymous #2 12w

+ I’m aroace and the way those people talk about NOT being in a relationship has been unilaterally offensive & reflects a miserable mindset.

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Anonymous #2 12w

I get this but y’all will usually cut them off with no explanation which leads to a self fulfilling prophecy where they don’t know what they’re doing wrong and then they have no close friends and feel the need to stay in relationships even more, so communicate with them :)

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Anonymous #3 12w

At that point you almost wonder if girlie has borderline tbh

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Anonymous #9 12w

even if she does can we stop with the stigmatization, we really could all have some more compassion instead of judgment.

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Anonymous hotmclaren 12w

Borderline is a personality disorder, not a mental one. Same with narcissistic personality disorder. There’s a reason it’s stigmatized. Some of the most abusive people out there.

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Anonymous #9 12w

the medical system failed them. stigmatizing actively prevents people from getting treated.

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Anonymous #5 12w

It’s a personality disorder. They’re choosing to be like this. And irregardless I didn’t even say anything bad about them. It’s extremely common for them to have “black and white” thinking and be extremely hot and cold with people. It’s not “stigmatization” if it’s just the truth of the matter.

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Anonymous #9 12w

oh fuck off “choosing to be like this.” it’s true people with bpd often think in black or white, but bpd can be and is usually developed from trauma too, so no, they’re not “choosing to be like this” -sincerely, a psychology major

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Anonymous #3 12w

That’s like saying “guysssss can we stop with the Stigma!! that adhd people have a hard time focusing!!!Like wtf guys”

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Anonymous #9 12w

people don’t choose to have the disorder?? tf??

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Anonymous #3 12w

Then you’d know Personality Disorders are very treatable if the person has motivation to change. Again, it’s not a mental disorder. It’s that their personality is so deeply atrocious, that we’ve named their personality to be a disorder

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Anonymous #9 12w

hey so look up the definition of “personality disorder” and screenshot the part that says it’s a choice

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Anonymous #5 12w

You wouldn’t give an inch of room for narcissists just saying 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #9 12w

explain? most disorders are treatable with the right help but lots of people with npd and bpd often don’t recognize they need it, so it goes untreated and stigmatized, you’re welcome

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Anonymous #9 12w

two of my best friends ever had NPD so it’s hilarious you say that shit LMAO

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Anonymous #3 12w

It’s not “my personality makes me treat people like shit”. It’s “I treat people like shit” Stop coddling these people. They don’t seek help since they don’t see how they act as a problem

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Anonymous #9 12w

the way you’re talking abt this clearly shows you’re just bitter & petty. I recommend therapy during this trying time.

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Anonymous #5 12w

Lmao, now you’re utilizing therapy speak on me. You sure you aren’t abusive, yourself? I work in therapy and addiction services. It’s just the truth. 95% of these people with personality disorders don’t want to change. And they often blame their actions on their disorder rather than face the truth that, it’s themselves causing it.

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Anonymous #9 12w

then you could’ve just said that as opposed to starting a whole argument in the replies of my comment. if 95% of people with personality disorders don’t seek help because they don’t want to change, maybe that is in fact a pattern of the disorder? just a thought

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Anonymous #9 12w

calling a stranger on YY abusive because of your narrow worldview is insane btw. you genuinely think everyone else has problems but yourself. this is sad. I hope you heal from whatever is causing this.

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Anonymous #9 12w

you should not be in therapy services holy shit 💀 can’t wait for your ass to be fired

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Anonymous #3 12w

It’s because most don’t want to change. They fully well and can though. They just don’t want to in my experience.

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Anonymous #9 12w

Again, utilizing therapy speak. “I hope you heal from this” Complete concern trolling lmao. When you have people literally try and stab you or other patients “for fun or attention” in their own words. You start to realize there’s a fucking reason these people have a stigma. It’s not because of nothing.

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