
Someone made a post about their bf communicating that he was dissatisfied w their sex life &would ideally have sex every day. & like yeah he definitely could have said it a retaliatory way but the post didn’t say anything about that. She was annoyed that he waited a whole year to communicate that to her which I totally agree with. But the comments were just weird. Like “who tf wants sex everyday, that man is porn addicted and sees you as an object” & “that’s super unrealistic & unnecessary”
And I just didn’t understand all the sex negativity and shaming of high libidos bc women can also have very high libidos. They are clearly very incompatible and that’s what I said to op and she agreed. So I made that post and I think the person that said that daily sex was really unrealistic, unnecessary and potentially harmful. And they just were condescending to me the whole time, talking down to me, calling me a ho, bitch, bird, slow etc bc she kept saying he was an asshole when I didn’t see
Anything to indicate that in the post except for the part that he waited until after their one year anniversary to say something. Op also stated that she was just not super into sex with him so I just told her that they’re incompatible with differing sex drives like there isn’t much else to argue about. Instead it seemed the comments (not op) were shaming ppl with high sex drives and that’s what I was commenting on