Anonymous #1 14h

I mean its my best friend yk & she did all of it unintentionally shes always been happy single she didnt see a problem w talking abt him nonstop, walking away from me to take his calls & saying things like “thats our business not yours” & i thought i was just being jealous & stupid & didnt tell her for months besides communicating that shes gotten distant & i didnt like it without blaming the mans, im currently struggling w enjoying being single so it hit an insecurity

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Anonymous #1 14h

And she has changed everything since and i told her to not talk abt him at all cuz it got so bad i almost had a panic attack, everything is different now and idk what to do i hit this wall where talking to her hurts and being distant hurts

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Anonymous OP 14h

sometimes we just have too much history with a person to be able to jump back into the friendship at the same level of closeness. it sounds like u might need some time away from her to check in with if u can even have her in ur life. living in this cycle of stressing urself just to be around her isn't healthy for u and not changing anything is just gonna leave u stuck in this feeling forever

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Anonymous #1 11h

We dont hang out a lot anymore it got a lot worse cuz i was on a long family vacation and had like sooo much free time and thought about it a lot, i went on a 2 week hiatus without telling her and felt bad cuz i texted her dry and barely text her anymore and missed her even, its hard cuz im a yapper (if u couldnt tell) but she isnt and so she just doesnt find anything to talk abt while i wanna tell her everything and i dont anymore cuz she says she has nothing new to talk abt and idk just a lot

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