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guys how do i be more feminine i rly don’t wanna sound like a pick me but my interests are considered “masculine” and i just like to dress androgynously. like one of my friends joked that i was test monster (testosterone) but that lowk hurt 🧍🏻‍♀️
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Anonymous 5w

idk as someone in the same position if you’re only asking because of judgement then just do your thang as you’re doing it don’t mind no one else

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Anonymous 5w

what the hell 😿

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Anonymous 5w

Are we talking that you wanna dress more feminine or have more feminine interests?

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Anonymous 5w

Get your nails done, do skincare, get into hair oiling. I can give more examples but I’m alternative and plus size and it was really hard for me to ever feel feminine and now I feel super feminine thanks mainly to my daily routine so I can try and help

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

i also go the gym and love weightlifting but sometimes when i see myself in the mirror i feel so masculine and so manly even if some of mt friends say i don’t look like that at all maybe im starting to think its all in the head but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

i don’t think i want to and necessarily can even change my interests i mean some of mine can be considered feminine but mainly im into more “masculine” ones i hate labeling its so dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

but def just dress and act a little more feminine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Good cause I would never suggest changing your interests! Or even trying!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I started very small because feminine things were out of my comfort zone for a long time. I started wearing rings to twist instead of biting my nails and then starting wearing a nice pair of earrings even when I was dressing like a man. I learned how to do makeup and started wearing more bolder jewelry tbh. Like dangling pairs of earrings and strands. Pearls are simple and elegant and I wear them everyday now to help me feel a bit more feminine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I found a lot of cute and comfortable tops and jeans that were a bit nicer than my usual everyday wear. Rompers too, then I tried a few dresses that were simple but suited me. I stopped cursing a lot too. I had a bad habit about that (but I still do it a bit sometimes). I tried to catch and stop myself from sitting like a man, if that makes sense. I try and sit straight and cross my legs, rather than spread like butter on a roll

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