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men rly don't realize how much work & discomfort women experience during sex jaw pain & inability to breathe for long periods of time. the disgusting taste of cum. the risk of pregnancy. fcking up our bodies w hormones. just to not even orgasm im tired
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Anonymous 1d

TRUTH NUKE LMFAO

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Anonymous 1d

it’s like our bodies weren’t meant to have a penis shoved inside of us bc the risk of a uti and everything else you listed and it’s uncomfortable too because they fuck up our ph levels

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Anonymous 21h

i genuinely hate sex. i don’t know if that’s because of past trauma or the fact that it’s just not super enjoyable to me. like i get horny and want to have sex but when i actually do it i hate it💔

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Anonymous 18h

this post made me really appreciate i realized i’m a lesbian, hoping for yall to bust

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Anonymous 14h

the LEAST every guy could do is be an eater

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Anonymous 20h

lowkey propaganda. if youre intimate with a gentle, healthy person youll (most of the time) be perfectly fine. and im pretty sure hormones are only messed up if the guy cums inside the girl. and we can remind ourselves abt condoms so im lost😭 i understand the orgasm part tho but shi ian got that problem

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Anonymous 22h

You don’t have to have sex if you don’t enjoy it. You don’t have to engage in acts that you don’t like

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Anonymous 1d

Just don’t fuck

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Anonymous 8h

THIS HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH RELIGION

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Anonymous 8h

Hot take…y not WAIT TILL MARRIAGE & get yourself A REAL MAN that GENUINELY loves u & wants the BEST for u & would NEVER EVEN CONSIDER PRESSURING U into having sex w him unless u were ok w it…idk js a thought 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 1d

are you a man?

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Anonymous 1d

Sounds like you want a man and your practicing on yourself

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Anonymous 1d

So is your penis clit-sized enough that you feel that you can go on the women only subreddit? Why are you here?

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Anonymous 1d

WHAT

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

right! it's like my body is rejecting almost every aspect of sex💀 how did we as a species make it this far

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Anonymous 1d

Chill on bro I tasted it too and it was pleasant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Realll! That’s why I got me a vibrator cause fuck the male species! 🤪🤪🤪

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and pregnancy permanently changes your body, and furthered pregnancies compound those changes. plus, babies are born incredibly premature, and that only happens because neither mother nor newborn would survive a birth if it happened when they were matured. newborn giraffes can walk after minutes btw. there’s so much shit with our bodies that just doesn’t work well 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 22h

I think what they’re trying to get at is that it’s really pushed & pressured societally. And you say that, but there are a lot of men who wouldn’t date a girl if she didn’t want to have sex. It’s not as simple as “just don’t have set”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 22h

Thats why you gotta find a man that doesnt just want you for sex cause there’s so much more to love than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 22h

Hm, that’s interesting. Thank you for pointing that ou

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 17h

Right, because that’s so easy in this world 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 17h

Also a lesbian! I’m concerned for y’all

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 16h

👍

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 14h

there’s good guys out there though that actually care about girls experience at least lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

okay i get it but with the right person who cares about your experience it is actually enjoyable imo- but also biologically we were meant for that because then no one would be having babies lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 14h

We shouldn’t be having babies anyways I mean like everyone deserves the choice but we’re overpopulated and it’s like the worst time to be alive it feels like. See like I enjoy sex with my man but for a while he used to fuck with my ph levels and after changing his diet for me it’s helped but I still deal with UTIs and it’s annoying having to go to the doctor and look at me like I’m either gross or instantly imply my bf is cheating except every time I test for a sti/std I’m clean and so is he.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

So as much as I enjoy sex with him, the aftermath isn’t always fun which is my point

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 8h

ur either 10 or 90. nobody with a brain thinks this way. we like sex were gonna have sex, if we wanna fall in love and get married at a certain time well do that. what do you think every premarital sexual interaction is coerced? or unenjoyable? or meaningless? lets think here

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 8h

That’s the difference between us, now isn’t it- self respecting women with high standards vs someone adding to the problem of y men don’t respect women. Do u people realize that if u had more self respect and were less accessible to everyone, especially men, your own value would increase significantly? How is this not common sense? Just to be clear, I don’t mean this with any disrespect, I just genuinely don’t understand your perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 8h

ew what the hell this take is purely religious and based in zero fact or evidence the concept of “virginity” is dumb as fuck. you’re telling me that my value as a woman is dependent on whether or not a man’s penis has been inside of me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8h

YES!

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 8h

You’re acting like we hold value like a vase. We’re people. We don’t lose value with time and “use”. I don’t think that you’re aware that you’re applying 1800’s propaganda to your life. There’s nothing wrong with waiting for the right person to have sex with, heck I’m 27 and still a virgin but that doesn’t give you the right to shame other women for their choices. Also having sex before marriage is a terrible idea because you don’t want to be legally shackled to someone that may not be sexually

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

Appropriate for your needs or theirs. You need to raise your self-esteem. How many people you do or don’t sleep with doesn’t affect your value as a person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

This will be my last comment but I want to add one more thing. Are men that have sex before marriage less valuable? As a virgin woman I wouldn’t want a used man if that’s the logic we’re applying. Why are men celebrated for having sex while we’re treated like scum for doing the same thing they get praised for?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 7h

then your opinion is simply irrelevant😭

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