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Is it a red flag if my boyfriend refuses to admit that men are dangerous and commit more crimes than women? When I tried to bring up statistics he told me the statistics were wrong & biased
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Anonymous 1w

yes major red flag , a real man doesn’t identify themselves with those group of men therefore wouldn’t take offense to it at all because its literally true. Even if he doesn’t do anything those men do it just puts him at the bare minimum. Actual men hold other men accountable, protect all women , and stand by victims not their gender

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Anonymous 1w

He’s arguing… a fact? 😭

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Anonymous 1w

That means he doesn’t believe in misogyny then…. If he doesn’t believe that men commit more violence in the world. He’s definitely been red pilled

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Anonymous 1w

I work for in the prisons and there are 26 male prisons in Michigan and only 1 for women…

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Anonymous 1w

Extra bad red flag- statistics don’t lie. His actions/refusal of fact bring up a lot of questions about what kind of man he is.

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Anonymous 1w

Bro it’s like that video “it’s opinion based”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ugh yea I was really weirded out by how he kept insisting that women are equal/ even more evil than men. I’m honestly extremely dissapointed in him I hate that he has this viewpoint- idk whether to break up or not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Do what’s best for you girl. From my experience, I had a boyfriend who argued women cheat more than men. He used Gen Z statistics, so I brought up broader statistics from all populations. Then he said statistics were “unreliable”, and when I said flat out men and women both cheat, he switched again and said they cheat EQUALLY, It frustrated me because he refused to hold men accountable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Later I realized through that and other behaviors that he was insecure, possessive, influenced by red-pill/media ideas, and thought of himself as “the prize.” I ended things in February, and I feel much freer and happier now. Pay attention to behavior and stay strict with your standards.

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