
I feel u girl :( to me boobs themselves are not the issue (beyond back pain and physical ailments etc) and moreso sexist society choosing to slutshame and undermine those with bigger boobs and labeling smaller boobs as less feminine and “mosquito bites”. It’s a body part (and an important one at that), not a marker of how “professional/serious” or “feminine/pretty” we are, but people will judge anyway😞.
As a woman with small boobs my experience was that I only started feeling insecure about them when men would call me flat or when women would infantilize me. I don’t know when I stopped caring, but I think the reason I stopped was because I realized I liked how I didn’t fit the perfect mould. We’re not supposed to be robots or sex dolls. We get to be women. I just hope all women learn to love their boobs with or without surgery ofc <3