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having boobs is so embarrassing. not having boobs is so embarrassing. stuck in an endless loop of trying to minimize them when i want to be taken seriously and trying to maximize them when i want to be seen as pretty
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Anonymous 11w

I feel u girl :( to me boobs themselves are not the issue (beyond back pain and physical ailments etc) and moreso sexist society choosing to slutshame and undermine those with bigger boobs and labeling smaller boobs as less feminine and “mosquito bites”. It’s a body part (and an important one at that), not a marker of how “professional/serious” or “feminine/pretty” we are, but people will judge anyway😞.

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Anonymous 11w

As a woman with small boobs my experience was that I only started feeling insecure about them when men would call me flat or when women would infantilize me. I don’t know when I stopped caring, but I think the reason I stopped was because I realized I liked how I didn’t fit the perfect mould. We’re not supposed to be robots or sex dolls. We get to be women. I just hope all women learn to love their boobs with or without surgery ofc <3

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Anonymous 11w

It’s a never ending battle. They aren’t small but they aren’t really big. Regular bras make my shirts look huge and I’m worried they look weird with sports bras. Ugh

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Anonymous 11w

dude yes i feel like a slut showing them and i feel like a chud hiding them

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Anonymous 11w

Big boobs is just highkey annoying. Shirts look weird, people either overly sexualize me or consider me fat… so yeah boobs suck

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Anonymous 11w

i just want mine GONE🫩

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Anonymous 11w

I went from an A cup to a DD because of birth control so I felt this in my soul. When they were smaller I wanted them bigger and now that they're big I want them smaller 😭

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Anonymous 11w

All girls have in life is boobs

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Anonymous 11w

Shii let me see👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

i absolutely agree with you, i just want to be able to control how i’m perceived and i hate how i have to trying to alter aspects of my body bc of a misogynistic society :(

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