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I’m so flat chested and everyone assumes I’m younger than I am and it’s messed with my brain enough that male attraction just feels gross and suspicious sometimes. Does anyone else feel thid way?
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Anonymous 2d

Best way to fix this is therapy.. happened to me too

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Anonymous 2d

Yes but i look young for my age. I know people say this 24/7 but I knew I was cooked when I volunteered at a middle school and the kids thought I was a student. I had to change how I dress, my hair and I wear makeup to fix that. Working on getting off my braces.I’m still myself but I just look very immature unfortunately.

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Anonymous 2d

You’re not paranoid. Don’t date anyone more than 10% older than you pls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

i am in therapy and it helps in the moment but then i get that wave of disgust again

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

i do wear a lot of makeup and stuff to look older and even push up bras but it doesn’t help much. all the compliments i receive (even from women) are “oh you’re so cute” ☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

ugh i just wish it wasn’t like this. i can’t afford a boob job rn and probably won’t be able to for a few years

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Uggh the “you’re so cute” and “ you’re so adorable” is so disrespectful to me. Like I am a grown woman wtf?! Honestly I think looking at it positively may help us? I’d rather someone think I’m younger than older atp to cope 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

i literally give up, i’ve tried everything even bee pollen 😹 i just hate being seen this way when i’m literally turning 23 this year

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

yeah i guess when i’m older it’ll be nice but i literally received some of these compliments at a BAR 😹😹 like cmon calling a grown ass woman cute is so rude

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