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As a vaginismus survivor this will be my first birthday ever getting some birthday sex. I am extremely excited. Hip Hip!
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Anonymous 21w

how did you know you have it if you don’t mind me asking? i’m scared because i’ve never done it before but whenever i’ve put in tampons its hurt pretty bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

That’ll do it. I’ve still never been able to wear a tampon but I can have sex now. I couldn’t even fit more than the tip of my pinky in my vagina it felt like a literal brick wall and there was no getting thru. I did have a hymenectomy surgery which helped a lot but still took another year before I was able to have PIV. So first noticed at 16 and still am not fully cured at almost 23 but so much progress has been made.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Ultimately tho you’ll have to go see your gyno for any sort of treatment or help. It’s almost impossible to cure on your own. In my case I had an imperforate hymen and vaginismus

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Anonymous 21w

Thankfully I have a great boyfriend who’s helped me thru all this

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