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i really need some advice…i have a really bad problem where i talk about exes a lot with new guys. i don’t do it to make them jealous i just have no filter and think i do it to say “hey i’ve been hurt before plz don’t do it again.” how do i stop😭
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Anonymous 2d

nah i get it im over my exes in like the romantic way and all good feelings are gone im just not over what he did to me if that makes sense?

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Anonymous 2d

i am over all my exes and don’t speak to any of them. I just have this mental block where i constantly tell these stories whenever they pop into my head. i rlly like this one guy and i know it’s the only thing preventing him from committing to me. We had a talk about it that went well but now i want to make sure i follow through with my actions

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

yeah i’ve had such horrible experiences and it’s really scary for me to start new relationships. i think i like to remind myself of the ways i’ve been hurt so i’m constantly looking out for those red flags

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