Consider: rather than alienating potential allies, show them why they should *also* care about these issue.
Solidarity doesnt happen by accusation
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Anonymous#14w
Exactly and as women we should support the men who are effected by the same things too. I’m sure the porn industry has left its mark on the gay community as well when it comes to boundaries and expectations.
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Anonymous#14w
i feel like the point is they don’t care about the impact it has on the women and children, just the fact it makes them lousy in bed
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Anonymous#34w
but also you do make a good point about not alienating potential allies. i think i as well as many others are very jaded and just over it when it comes to men and trying to get them to respect us
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Anonymous#34w
Women didnt get the vote by telling male suffragists “youre only doing this because your wife is annoying you.”
They did it by showing why they should genuinely care about women’s issues
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Anonymous#34w
I think erectile disfunction and arousal issues shouldn’t be labeled under lousy
Those conditions actually negatively impact someone’s mental health. Sex is important for humans and our connection with others and not being able to preform isn’t lousy
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Anonymous#34w
Not being able to find the clit or put in the effort to make sure your partner has a good experience as well as you is considered lousy
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Anonymous#14w
the fact of the matter is the majority of men are never going to be in solidarity with us. this was posted to reach women.
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Anonymous#24w
sure but it’s not just ED or arousal issues it’s also men having insanely high toxic expectations for their partners because they consume so much porn they rot their brains
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AnonymousOP4w
And it did reach women. I think it was a poorly worded point is all
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Anonymous#34w
Yes but in referring to the ss of the post op put up. Also i literally mentioned unrealistic expectations on my first reply
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Anonymous#24w
ok tbh yes ED and arousal issues aren’t inherently the man’s fault but they DO make them lousy in bed so i’m not gonna retract or edit my original statement
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Anonymous#34w
So if a woman had arousal issues would that make her lousy in bed?