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Anonymous 4w

Consider: rather than alienating potential allies, show them why they should *also* care about these issue. Solidarity doesnt happen by accusation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Exactly and as women we should support the men who are effected by the same things too. I’m sure the porn industry has left its mark on the gay community as well when it comes to boundaries and expectations.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i feel like the point is they don’t care about the impact it has on the women and children, just the fact it makes them lousy in bed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

but also you do make a good point about not alienating potential allies. i think i as well as many others are very jaded and just over it when it comes to men and trying to get them to respect us

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Women didnt get the vote by telling male suffragists “youre only doing this because your wife is annoying you.” They did it by showing why they should genuinely care about women’s issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I think erectile disfunction and arousal issues shouldn’t be labeled under lousy Those conditions actually negatively impact someone’s mental health. Sex is important for humans and our connection with others and not being able to preform isn’t lousy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Not being able to find the clit or put in the effort to make sure your partner has a good experience as well as you is considered lousy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

the fact of the matter is the majority of men are never going to be in solidarity with us. this was posted to reach women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

sure but it’s not just ED or arousal issues it’s also men having insanely high toxic expectations for their partners because they consume so much porn they rot their brains

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And it did reach women. I think it was a poorly worded point is all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yes but in referring to the ss of the post op put up. Also i literally mentioned unrealistic expectations on my first reply

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

ok tbh yes ED and arousal issues aren’t inherently the man’s fault but they DO make them lousy in bed so i’m not gonna retract or edit my original statement

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

So if a woman had arousal issues would that make her lousy in bed?

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