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Went home early from school to see my best friend and she said that she couldn’t see me bc she wanted to b with her family. I say ok we can do tmr. She doesn’t answer my texts to make plans tmr and she ended up being with her boyfriend today!!!
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Anonymous 5w

Like am I valid for being upset

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah that’s extremely valid. She clearly isn’t wanting to hang out and not only that, she isn’t even showing enough COMMON COURTESY to just reply and say she is unavailable

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Anonymous 5w

Yes you’re valid esp if she communicated that she would be available, poor communication on her end simply

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

like I’m so upset and she was like I told you I wasn’t sure. Last we left off she was spending the day with her family and she couldn’t see me. She doesn’t text me all day when I text a gc trying to make plans for tmr and she ended up being with her boyfriend?? Like

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

ITS SO MEAN BRO.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No that’s weird and feels like a one sided friendship, feels like someone in your future you may need to cut off, I’m sorry that happened :(

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

Like that’s super super disrespectful. Ngl last time a friend did that to me… I ended up cutting contact 💀 it wasn’t just that but like people don’t treat you poorly just once normally

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

She’s the type of friend that just doesn’t like to hang out bc it’s too much but like I haven’t seen u in 3 months? Then she had the audacity to tell me that I’m overreacting by saying it hurt my feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

Its so fucking weird bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah sounds more like she just doesn’t want to be friends. Not seeing you at all in three months????? And not making an effort and setting aside even a tiny amount of time to see you???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Do you text or call much?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If she didn’t explicitly say that day or tomorrow were available then that’s on you for showing up expecting it. However, her diminishing your feelings and blowing you off for 3 months is shitty friend behavior fs, y’all either need to communicate better or break things off

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 5w

Yes text a lot

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