Anonymous #1 5w

ur welcome my frustrations create art

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Anonymous #7 5w

you don’t need to sleep without undies to be healthy! get yourself some 100% cotton underwear it’s super breathable and comfortable and way better for your vag health than nylon or polyester

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Anonymous #12 5w

Congrats on botton surgery!

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Anonymous #11 5w

thank you!

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Anonymous #13 5w

i sleep naked most of the time it’s so much better than sleeping with clothes. unless i’m in a hostel or something i see little point in sleeping with clothes.

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Anonymous #10 5w

Nooo, also for me I noticed the panty liners make it worse

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Anonymous #14 5w

really?? i’m so sorry😭 they piss me off but save me from changing my undies during the day

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Anonymous #10 5w

That’s fair, I just stopped using them and noticed less discharge over time but it was so annoying for the week or two I stopped using them 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #11 5w

Brother what

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Anonymous #16 5w

gender dysphoria is a medical intersex condition it’s not something people choose. that being said i do think some people tend to the pop psychology thing and think everything someone has is it when it’s in truth an incredibly rare medical condition.

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Anonymous #12 5w

Wait, really? I’ve always thought I would love having a wiener

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Anonymous OP 5w

i don’t think you understand that your brain is literally wired into your gender and that if you have anything even slightly off it causes extreme discomfort to the highest level

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Anonymous #12 5w

this is the whole reason why trans people exist. also this isn’t me being stupid and saying things like “female desires” or other mysogynistic things exist but moreso your primary and secondary sex characteristics are supposed to be a specific way and your brain is wired for them to be that way.

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Anonymous #12 5w

but instead of getting treated as a medical disorder we are treated as a fun silly identity you can choose to have one day so to no need to back up why you have it because appropriating conditions is fine if they are popular or something

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Anonymous #12 5w

Not to Sound weird or anything but I’ve always wondered, do you get like some kind of discharge with a vaginoplasty?

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Anonymous #3 5w

depends on the type you get but for me yes

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Anonymous #12 5w

Oh yes I see

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Anonymous #18 5w

it took me years to realize that this wasn’t something i should be experiencing on a regular basis and that it means my vagina was not getting enough breathing room 😭

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Anonymous #3 5w

but my surgeon was really good i basically have a vagina nearly indistinguishable from any cis woman besides surgery scars (even then labiaplasty exists) and also being deeper than most cis women

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Anonymous #12 5w

oh and also being tighter and not having a real cervix at the end

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Anonymous #12 5w

Nowhere did 11 say you choose it king wtf quit bouncin on it😭

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Anonymous #20 5w

learn to read i’m replying to number 16.

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Anonymous #12 5w

My fault first comment of yours was to 11 lols

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Anonymous #21 5w

🙄

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Anonymous #12 5w

Ngl this sounds a little misogynistic. 😬

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Anonymous #22 5w

brain sex theory is quite literally proven and has nothing to do with “feminine desires” (which is a misogynistic concept). brain sex theory mainly relates to how your brain perceives your own sex.

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Anonymous #12 5w

if you’re talking about me describing physical differences from my body to others though idk what to tell you. this is just quite literally the truth of how bodies work. if you’re criticising my wording that’s valid (i used casual wording since this is yikyak) but me describing physical scientific differences in humans isn’t mysogynistic. it’s quite literally just science.

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Anonymous #12 5w

It’s just that the *way* you described it sounded very male centered.

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Anonymous #22 5w

fair enough as i said i used really casual wording here as this is yikyak.

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Anonymous #12 5w

i absolutely could have worded what i said better and i did stupidly assume the person asking primarily cared about sexual differences. there’s a few others but they don’t really matter unless you are seriously considering getting this surgery.

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Anonymous #12 5w

wait do trans girls actually get discharge the same way cis girls do? i assumed discharge was from stuff like our cycle like vaginal discharge is from ovulation and stuff

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Anonymous #8 5w

idk if it’s exactly the same but there is some sort of discharge especially immediately after surgery (we also bleed a lot immediately after) but it slows down after a month or two

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Anonymous #12 5w

yeah at least for me i have at least some kind of discharge almost every day of the month it’s usually clear or white and doesn’t smell like anything except for a period obviously. except now i’m birth control and it’s either thick and white or none at all unless im turned on

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Anonymous #8 5w

oh i have this every day too yeah

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Anonymous #12 5w

and very intensely

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Anonymous #8 5w

i have basically the same except it’s clear though. but also literally everyone is different many people use different methods for many reasons and i got surgery extremely young too.

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Anonymous #12 5w

wait you don’t have to answer if this is an invasive question i don’t wanna make you uncomfortable but what’s it caused by do you know

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Anonymous #8 5w

not sure nor do i care all that much i think its just caused by me being horny a lot since thats when i usually get wet 😭

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Anonymous #12 5w

oh weird

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Anonymous #8 5w

i could probably ask my surgeon team if you’re that curious but my assumption would be it’s just that a lot of organs are very similar anyways and for my specific type of surgery a lot of them got re-arranged which is the whole reason i am able to get wet (i think people who get inversion are unable to get wet as those organs are cut entirely i believe)

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Anonymous #10 5w

get checked for a yeast infection. this happened to me but then i took one or two pills (i forget the prescription) and it hasn’t come back

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Anonymous #3 5w

No seriously! I feel like a snail 😭

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Anonymous #24 5w

i’ve had it all my life! 20+years now. dw, infection free, i’m just slimy

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Anonymous #24 5w

i appreciate it tho

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Anonymous #17 5w

😭😭😭

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Anonymous #13 5w

i do both of those but it helps nothing 💔 somebodies are just naturally like that

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Anonymous #10 5w

just giggling at the fact you had this conversation with your mom

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Anonymous #28 5w

i’ve had it with my sister too lmao, my body confuses me

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Anonymous #12 5w

Im aware what it is, but this post is talking about women and not random trans stuff

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Anonymous #9 5w

Glad someone mentioned the smell part because it’s literally my biggest insecurity. I try so hard to stay clean and healthy down there 😭🥀

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Anonymous #9 5w

one time in stadium seats i had my feet up on the seat back in front of me and my guy friend said something smelled i was never more mad at everyone saying ppl cant smell it 😣😣

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Anonymous #16 5w

Said what we were all thinking

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Anonymous #18 5w

i’m so terrified of that omg i cross my legs religiously just in case cause i swear i can ALWAYS smell it through my clothes

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Anonymous #31 5w

same!!!

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Anonymous #12 5w

If you’re comfortable answering, I’m curious what areas “feel pleasure” if you know what I mean lol. I know you understand where vaginal nerve endings are and I’m curious if those same places could be recreated for you or what. I’m a cis woman and I just like learning… and I’m overly curious 😭

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Anonymous #18 5w

I’ve been struggling with BV since middle school and it’s actually been traumatizing. No matter what I try, it always comes back and YES if people have a good enough smell… they can smell it 😭💔💔💔

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Anonymous #10 5w

It’s probably BV so try Boric Acid suppositories if you haven’t. They work to put the ph levels back on track!

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Anonymous #30 5w

i have a clit and i mostly feel pleasure there but i do not have a g spot but still when putting things in it sometimes feels good unless its something like a dialator that’s not meant to feel good

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Anonymous #20 5w

Finally a sane person 🙏

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Anonymous #10 5w

no it haunts me it happened almost a year ago and i just can’t forget abt it

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Anonymous #10 5w

Go commando. Less discharge without drawls on

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Anonymous #30 5w

Take a probiotic every day and you’re set

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Anonymous #16 5w

🫶🏻

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Anonymous #35 5w

I do. Some peoples balance is worse off due to genetics combined with their diet and lifestyle. It fucking sucks bruh 😭

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Anonymous #30 5w

i’m all good, no infections or anything here at all! it’s just how my body is 💛

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Anonymous #10 5w

and i take probiotics too. i do all the things

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Anonymous #10 5w

i’ve been dealing with this for over 20years now, trust i know what im doing

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Anonymous #12 5w

Ah ok thanks for the response!

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Anonymous #26 5w

LMAO

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Anonymous #33 5w

Man WHAT. I drip like a leaking faucet every like 40 sec. Going commando is NOT an option 😭

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Anonymous #10 5w

I believe you! I’m just glad I’m not the only one because even when I’ve had check ups and know I’m healthy there, it’s still stronger than I want it to be and I always feel like I’m the only one 😭

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Anonymous #11 5w

Well by that standard, ig I just have hatefemalebodyproblemsmorphia because I’m totally fine being a cis woman, but I’m just sick and fucking tired of periods and vaginal everything. Our bodies are not taken seriously or researched near as much as the male body so it’s just a struggle how nothings truly made with us in mind. I’m sure there’s plenty of cis men who loath the two dangling jingle bells between their legs but they’re fine with the body they were given in general 😭

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Anonymous #11 5w

body parts causing physical discomfort/inconvenience is NOT the same as dysphoria. speaking as someone who experiences both (often at the same time)

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Anonymous #9 5w

Omg yes the smell😭😭 I have tried EVERYTHING and I can still smell her

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Anonymous #30 5w

BROO BV IS HORRIBLE. You get it once and everything is messed up forever!!! I swear. Probiotics have SAVED me.

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Anonymous #19 5w

Sis I think they recently found out that a lot of women contract BV through their male partners. If you keep getting it with the same partner, i think they can go to the doctor to get antibiotics which lessens the chance of you continuously contracting it

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Anonymous #3 5w

BV is the bacterial equivalent of a yeast infection. It’s an imbalance of biota in the vagina. Yes, male partners pH can affect the biota but they don’t directly cause infections

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