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donutfairy

Always a lot of hate on my posts but they always go trending 😭 idk why yall get so mad when an afab gets passionate about making this community better for minorities :/
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Anonymous 4w

Nah I think people just find you incredibly annoying regardless of the ultra sleeve-wearing sjw liberal persona you’re spouting lol

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Anonymous 4w

And the fact yall always rage bait too just proves you don’t want to make it a safe community- or idk me posting 3 times and capitalizing 5 worlds means I’m a mean nasty feminazi

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Anonymous 4w

Maybe like grow thicker skin? Not everything has to fit your shallow view on the world

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Anonymous 4w

Idk I feel weird bc I’ve grown up in a very patriarchal surroundings and all my spaces have been very white male centered & then it’s like I’ve just found myself to be a lot different so it’s like I’m very much used to to making crass jokes at the expense of others or myself and not really caring but now for I’ve found myself being more sensitive to these things. It’s some people’s spaces where I feel like they can be themselves but I feel like public chats should be treated like public spaces.

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Anonymous 4w

Ur not gonna make me cry- but yeah I cry about the harassment I face as an afab and the sexual assault and sexual harassment

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

Maybe I just find it annoying my whole life I’ve had to hid who I am physically when playing video games to protect myself from harassment? And it’s just getting worse and I haven’t seen any improvement?? I’m not standing up for anything except wanting to make video games safter for myself because I have a vagina and get sexualized or hated on immediately it only takes ONE person in the lobby to ruin it

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

And yeah it’s hard for me to just hope into another game after being hate crimed and possibly sexually harassed!

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

There’s a lot of power in not caring. That’s all I really need to say.

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

Yeah and all the men that don’t care when it’s happening are creating space for sexist racist homophobes l. Why do you think there aren’t was many minorities and women in the gaming community- because yall don’t make us feel safe???

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

Uhhhh no let’s not muddy the waters for sexual harassment here. That’s a very serious crime that already goes unchecked way too often as it is. Being verbally harassed, while still shitty and wrong, is not the same thing as actual sexual harassment. Let’s stop that right there

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

And you getting offended and upset when I speak out about it is more then doing nothing and not caring

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

Nah you’re creating a problem that isn’t actually there because your entire personality revolves around being a “victim” lol

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

I’m not the slightest bit offended. You’re only making it worse for yourself by doing whatever you think you’re doing 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> brattybottom51 4w

It’s definitely something I try to confront but at the same time it’s annoying to have a space that’s online that feels normal and homogenous to your thinking and then it’s like taken away from you because it should be more inclusive like everything else. But idk I feel you because I just kinda feel bad and it’s something I see now all the time. Feminine presenting people just go through all this shit that I never dealt with. And now I see the consistent scrutiny too

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

Sexual harassment is also a large umbrella and includes verbal! When guys tell me they are going to stick there dicks in my mouth so I stop making call outs- that’s sexual harassment and real things I’ve experienced. You saying I only act like a victim, but I haven’t gone a session using voice in the games I like without at least being immediately hit on by a stranger which I also find as a problem because the ONLY thing they know about me is games and vagina

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

Their*

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

It’s me talking about my real experiences and saying I don’t feel safe in this community and people think that’s annoying and an opportunity to rage bait I think that’s toxic personally

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

I don’t want to assume your sex but if your not AFAB, then you really can’t tell me if it’s a problem or not

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

You’re*

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Anonymous replying to -> brattybottom51 4w

I haven’t seen your posts nor are they on your profile but I think you should still voice them if you are comfortable too. All people should at least be comfortable to play video games in public spaces without harassment and prejudice and whatnot. As someone who has freaky names I had to retire one because one of my friends got way too much negative attention because she gets so many overweight jokes and it made me really sad that all they’d do is make fun of her even if she wasn’t in the lobby.

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

Correcting my grammar on Yik yak is a great way to avoid making a valid argument back- You’re using the logical fallacy ad hominem i believe!

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

Like YOURE correcting my grammar when you don’t even know or understand the full definition of sexual assault 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

☝️🤓

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Anonymous replying to -> brattybottom51 4w

I really fully appreciate your perspective and voice it opened my mind a little to how you feel as well! But the gaming community shouldn’t be a safe space for misogyny and sexism anymore! So many young girls and afabs get groomed!!! And just everyone harassed in many ways if there isn’t a minority in the lobby- somebody else is gonna be the butt of the joke. I’m so happy you understand me and I hope you feel like I understand you as well!

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

I actually love those emojis and loveeee when people insult me for being a “nerd” very high school jock mentality of you

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

🤓☝️I looked it up and it is the ad hominem fallacy, attacking something about the person with out attacking the actual argument!

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

The fact that I don’t feel the need to use proper grammar when using Yik yak is not a valid attack to my argument it’s just- immature in my opinion but you also don’t have to use this app to be productive or good so if you wanna spew hate go ahead 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

BAHAHAHAHAHHA YOU CANT EVEN RESPOND TO THE CORRECT COMMENT HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis4.4 4w

brother can we stop the ragebait on a serious topic

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Anonymous replying to -> brattybottom51 4w

Like I wanna block him but I also feel like he needs to be annoyed by my posts now and see what other people have to say ☹️ idk

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 4w

I promise you I am not annoyed in the slightest 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’m not talking about people telling me I’m bad at the game or regular jokes like that. I’m talking about sexism and sexual harassment! These are hate crimes not regular bullying I do not want learn to be okay with being harassed because of my sex every time I play video games. I really hope this makes since and I do try not to be sensitive but sexism is different!

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Anonymous replying to -> donutfairy 3w

… grow thicker skin? They are only making jokes like that cause they know it gets to people like you. If you dislike the jokes turn it back onto them

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