Anonymous #1 1d

cause i don’t want to be that gf that constantly asks my bf to buy stuff??? my parents raised me to believe i was a financial burden 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous #2 1d

we wouldn’t be able to play the game together without buying another copy, which is the whole point of me getting the game myself is for in the first place. so i can play with him

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Anonymous OP 1d

girl to girl there is nothing wrong with being that girl. but i get it.

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Anonymous #1 1d

he just already buys every meal for me when we go out together and will also get like energy drinks or snacks and stuff for me (including at least like 5-6 games) and i’m very conscientious of all of it 😭 i literally told him he’s not allowed to buy me any more games until we 100% every single game he’s already got me but he REALLY wants to get me isaac but i wont let him lmfao

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Anonymous #3 19h

did you see where i said he already buys a shit ton of stuff for me and i don’t want to ask him to buy me anything else

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Anonymous OP 19h

Yeah I did see that. I also saw the part where you keep emphasizing how much he wants to play it with you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and just ask him to buy it. It's $15, not $15,000. Do you really think $15 is gonna be some big difference maker? Get a grip

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Anonymous #3 18h

bitch who hurt you omfg get a chill pill 😭

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Anonymous OP 18h

I'm not hurt, you're the one that was rude to my first comment lmao

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Anonymous #3 12h

i simply asked if you saw my comment. you were the one that was rude first but okay big guy 💀

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Anonymous OP 12h

You didn't "simply ask." You were being sarcastic and rude lmao.

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Anonymous #3 11h

no, it was a genuine question because why would you have made that comment otherwise if you hadn’t read my previous one?

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Anonymous OP 11h

Because it's a $15 game😭. I promise you it's not going to make or break his bank account or your relationship. Having the mindset of "I'm a financial burden" isn't healthy

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Anonymous #3 11h

no shit it’s not healthy, but to some people, $15 is a lot of money. not everyone has the privilege you apparently have :/

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Anonymous OP 11h

It's not privilege, it's called working lol. I work 2 jobs and am a full time grad student. I also do DoorDash on the side when I can. $15 is not a lot of money no matter how you string it. And if you know it's unhealthy, you should probably take steps to fixing that way of thinking before it negatively affects your life

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Anonymous #3 10h

congrats money bags. i also work a job and im getting a second degree that’s draining me for everything i have. i cant even pay for groceries or a fucking parking pass. employment with good pay is a privilege. you are so naive to some people’s life circumstances and it shows. if you’re so well off, how about you flaunt your wealth and buy me the game yourself? matter of fact, buy everyone on this yy a game of their choice

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Anonymous #3 10h

Gahhh i could really use 15 bucks rnnn 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀

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Anonymous OP 9h

Lmao drop your cashapp and I'll buy the game for you. And it's not affluence or wealth. It's called being a hardworker and being smart with your money. I've had a job since I was 16 years old. I don't come from money, I work hard to get money. I'm not naive. I live in HCOL area with lots of poor people and homelessness. I've volunteered in soup kitchens, you're preaching to choir. My whole thing is, if your bf pays for everything, then obviously he has money. $15 isn't going to break the bank

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Anonymous OP 9h

I really didn't mean for this to devolve into an argument, I was just saying with something so cheap and trivial such as a game, it doesn't make sense for you to not ask your bf. If he truly loves you then he won't care about you asking him to buy the game. Where you need to be concerned with money is for larger purchases. (E.g. house, car, rent, etc.). A $15 game is so small in the grander scheme of things when there are other things you should focus on strengthening in a relationship imo.

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Anonymous #3 6h

if you actually have seen poverty is like, i don’t understand why you would trivialize 15 dollars in a way like you did :/ just seemed very insensitive. also you’d know that asking for something you need is hard enough. but asking for something that’s completely unnecessary like a video game? nah. forget it

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Anonymous OP 6h

Right but you're not suffering from poverty if a video game is what you're concerned about, hence, why I "trivialized" $15 in your case. Additionally, since your bf already buys things for you, asking him for something that you and him both want shouldn't be some once-in-a-lifetime miracle request.

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